Posts Categorised: simplify
I’m a big fan of tips that make everyday tasks easier, faster and more efficient (a.k.a. life hacks).
Here are three of my favorites. Enjoy!
A better way to tie your shoes
How to dry your hands
A simple, clean way slice a bell pepper
I don’t own a house, but I have a home.
A home filled with laughter, love, encouragement and forgiveness.
It’s a place where I can let my guard down and just be me.
I can cry when I’m sad and dance when I’m happy.
Hugs and kisses are abundant and free.
No, I don’t have a house, but I have something that no amount of money can buy—a home.
Today I’m explaining to KidFish where the sun goes at night time.
Today I’m taking KidFish to the farmer’s market to let her taste how delicious ripe summer fruits can be.
Today I’m encouraging KidFish to be generous with her toys.
Today I’m celebrating with KidFish when she puts on her own shoes (even if they’re on the wrong feet).
Some might call this “raising a child.”
I’m not raising a child.
I’m raising a woman.
A woman who knows that the world does not revolve around herself.
A woman who lives a healthy lifestyle and takes care of her body.
A woman who joyfully shares what has been given to her.
A woman who is confident, works-hard and knows the satisfaction of a job well done.
KidFish might look like a little girl, but in reality she is a woman-in-training.
Comfort is over-rated.
Growth happens outside of our comfort zone.
Stop spending so much time, energy and effort pursuing comfort and start embracing the uncomfortable.
In fact, the dishes have overflowed onto the counter and even onto the stove!
No matter how hard I try, no matter how many dishes I wash, there are always more dirty dishes.
I get frustrated. I cry. Sometimes I just want to throw all the dishes away and eat off paper plates for the rest of my life.
That’s when I stop, take a breath and say to myself “Do not be upset that I have dishes to wash. Be happy that I have food to eat.”
Sometimes I just need to remind myself that I am really blessed.
It’s okay to feel sad.
It’s okay to feel angry.
It’s okay to feel jealous.
It’s okay to feel frustrated.
It’s okay to feel lonely.
It’s okay to feel insecure.
It’s okay to feel anxious.
It’s okay to feel scared.
There are no wrong feelings. There are, however, wrong actions.
We cannot control our feelings, but we CAN control our actions.
Maturity is doing the right thing despite how we feel.
Copying gets a bad rap. Not all copying is bad.
Copying test answers? Bad.
Copying kindness? Good.
Copying swear words? Bad.
Copying healthy eating habits? Good.
Everyone copies. That’s how we learn.
I copy and so does my daughter. KidFish copies my words, my mannerisms, even my laugh. Unfortunately, she also copies things like talking with her mouth full and picking fries instead of vegetables.
Although I can’t control WHAT KidFish copies, I CAN give her plenty of opportunities to copy good behavior.
Want KidFish to be polite? Be polite.
Want KidFish to be generous? Be generous.
Want KidFish to stop watching so much TV? Stop watching so much TV.
Want KidFish to be patient? Be patient.
It’s not always that simple or easy, but it’s a good place to start.